bobaloo keeps PMing me to comment on his cock pics, but I rufuse
here is what freud had to say about projection...
Psychology: Projection:
The attribution of one's own attitudes, feelings, or suppositions to others: “Even trained anthropologists have been guilty of unconscious projectionof clothing the subjects of their research in theories brought with them into the field” (Alex Shoumatoff).
The attribution of one's own attitudes, feelings, or desires to someone or something as a naive or unconscious defense against anxiety or guilt.
Basically, you using projection as a defense mechanism. you're lashing out at me because you're mad at yourself for not being able to control your strange behavior of PMing pics of your wang. Good think you're not PMing Gnappy. He'd consider it a proposal and be halfway to your house already.
I got the same pM to go and vote and leave comments , I dont know if its desperate or not but competitive , you show me a lady that gets 4's and one that gets 7's and I bet they would duke it out to climb the ladder .......
Basically, you using projection as a defense mechanism. you're lashing out at me because you're mad at yourself for not being able to control your strange behavior of PMing pics of your wang. Good think you're not PMing Gnappy. He'd consider it a proposal and be halfway to your house already.
I think the 'Top Melons this month' section makes this site competitive. If you're able to vote for yourself, then you can keep yourself in the top 20. Isn't that why women start threads for themselves in the 411 section, more attention for themselves so people check out their pics. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, positive praise is why everyone posts pics to this site.
Yes, but don't you think it's kinda sad when women resort to "begging" for attention? The pictures are generally posted for fun. Boobs are fun things. We all have fun with them. When the need for praise is so strong that that a woman actually begs for attention... well it just seems very sad. Let's face it, we're all exhibitionists to some degree here. But showing your boobs for fun, and soliciting votes arre two very different things. Besides, there are some women here that have NO chance of ever being in the top ten, but are out there trying to "buy" votes with promises of more personal types of pictures to be e-mailed in exchange for a vote or comment. Just sounds like they have self-image issues.
Yes, but don't you think it's kinda sad when women resort to "begging" for attention? The pictures are generally posted for fun. Boobs are fun things. We all have fun with them. When the need for praise is so strong that that a woman actually begs for attention... well it just seems very sad. Let's face it, we're all exhibitionists to some degree here. But showing your boobs for fun, and soliciting votes arre two very different things. Besides, there are some women here that have NO chance of ever being in the top ten, but are out there trying to "buy" votes with promises of more personal types of pictures to be e-mailed in exchange for a vote or comment. Just sounds like they have self-image issues.
I know I'll never make the top 10....but that's not why I'm here.
I agree with you on this Lynette, why not just take it as it comes and enjoy just posting on the board, soliciting for comments by promising pics is kinda pointless. If that's the only way to get good comments then they are sort of not real comments IMO
I got the same PM but ignored it just the same. Although out of curiousity I did check out the profile and IMO those specific profile pics have a lot more comments than most others
ok i agree that pming every random guy on RMM for comments and a return gift of porn pictures is stupid and a bit lame. i know i have recieved one or 2 of these pms from a girl doing it. i also agree they then in turn are "fake" comments. but ive had guys PM me with a compliment and have replied oh thanks, check out my other pics then if you like. and thats pretty much it.
another annoying thing is when guys have a standard email they send to all the girls telling them how sexy they are and its all very generic, and how i figured that out was they send me the same email like 5 times. GAYYY
i dont take the ratings seriously altho its nice to see some hight numbers sometims. like ontippytoes, i just like the comments. just the fact you couldnt sit there and just admire, you had to say something, is nice.
this site is just for fun and plays up exhibitionism. nothin wrong with that!
Personally, I believe that the ratings on the board do not indicate the quality of a woman's rack at all. There are too many ways that women, their husbands, or boyfriends can stack the deck by cheating. There have been other sites like this that have tried many different methods to stop cheating on the ratings. NONE have had any success. So ladies, please don't take these numbers to heart. Study ALL the pictures and you'll see that there are pictures that should obviously be in the top ten that are nowhere near the numbers they deserve. When the realization that this "cheating" does exist sets in, don't get upset or angry. Just accept it as part of the natue of the beast. Whether you're in the top ten on some boobie site or not is not going to define you as a person in real life. If you DO find yourself getting angry or frustrated, just remember that these kinds of sites are here for male entertainment value and you're are particpating for the fun of it.
Personally, I believe that the ratings on the board do not indicate the quality of a woman's rack at all. There are too many ways that women, their husbands, or boyfriends can stack the deck by cheating. There have been other sites like this that have tried many different methods to stop cheating on the ratings. NONE have had any success. So ladies, please don't take these numbers to heart. Study ALL the pictures and you'll see that there are pictures that should obviously be in the top ten that are nowhere near the numbers they deserve. When the realization that this "cheating" does exist sets in, don't get upset or angry. Just accept it as part of the natue of the beast. Whether you're in the top ten on some boobie site or not is not going to define you as a person in real life. If you DO find yourself getting angry or frustrated, just remember that these kinds of sites are here for male entertainment value and you're are particpating for the fun of it.
Personally, I believe that the ratings on the board do not indicate the quality of a woman's rack at all. There are too many ways that women, their husbands, or boyfriends can stack the deck by cheating. There have been other sites like this that have tried many different methods to stop cheating on the ratings. NONE have had any success. So ladies, please don't take these numbers to heart. Study ALL the pictures and you'll see that there are pictures that should obviously be in the top ten that are nowhere near the numbers they deserve. When the realization that this "cheating" does exist sets in, don't get upset or angry. Just accept it as part of the natue of the beast. Whether you're in the top ten on some boobie site or not is not going to define you as a person in real life. If you DO find yourself getting angry or frustrated, just remember that these kinds of sites are here for male entertainment value and you're are particpating for the fun of it.