Sexual Arousal

Double D's

Member No.: 12556 Posts: 3,164 Joined: 01/2006

▫ Apr 17 2006, 16:46 Post #41

QUOTE(thenewguy)

Ok. I'll be the odd guy out here. MOST of the time I can get horny quick and jump right into it. Sometimes I lose interest though if Im horny and ready to get it on but the wife wants to soft kiss and rub and tickle... all that stuff kinda takes me out of the mood. If I got a full hard on... than that sucker wants to get at it!

However, on some occasions Im just not in the mood- im might be tired or a bit depressed or something,,, but sometimes my sex drive just drops because of my mood. The wife can see the signals by now and she knows just to wait until tomorrow.

On average we have sex 2-3 times a week. Sometimes more... but 2-3 is average.

Doesn't seem odd at all to me my husband can be the same way only difference is when I can tell he is not in a mood to have it he will still be willing to try and than it never works right cant stay hard what have you so I try to tell him NO when I can tell he is super tired or not in a good mood or whatever I rather have him when he is 100% .

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D Cup

Member No.: 14038 Posts: 1,236 Joined: 03/2006

▫ Apr 17 2006, 17:44 Post #42

QUOTE(muzicmaniac2005)

being a guy....it takes about the time your lights come on after you flip the switch :bonerfied:

being boanna...she was already done before you flipped the switch!

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A Cup

Member No.: 11828 Posts: 79 Joined: 11/2005

▫ Apr 17 2006, 17:51 Post #43

QUOTE(boanna)

being boanna...she was already done before you flipped the switch!

to know how fast im horny ,lets go to talk on msn lol

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B Cup

Member No.: 13815 Posts: 242 Joined: 03/2006

▫ Apr 17 2006, 20:06 Post #44

QUOTE(diane26)

Doesn't seem odd at all to me my husband can be the same way only difference is when I can tell he is not in a mood to have it he will still be willing to try and than it never works right cant stay hard what have you so I try to tell him NO when I can tell he is super tired or not in a good mood or whatever I rather have him when he is 100% .

I guess I was just sayong that most people have the idea that all men are always horny. Im not... but I always appreciate hotness, but im not always ready to fuck at the drop of a dime. Im not a dog.

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D Cup

Member No.: 14038 Posts: 1,236 Joined: 03/2006

▫ Apr 17 2006, 20:32 Post #45

QUOTE(thenewguy)

I guess I was just sayong that most people have the idea that all men are always horny. Im not... but I always appreciate hotness, but im not always ready to fuck at the drop of a dime. Im not a dog.

yea, your right. sometimes i just wanna say..get lost! but not very often. most of the time i find myself thinking....whats a girl gotta do to get some dick in this town?

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Double D's

Member No.: 12556 Posts: 3,164 Joined: 01/2006

▫ Apr 17 2006, 20:37 Post #46

QUOTE(thenewguy)

I guess I was just sayong that most people have the idea that all men are always horny. Im not... but I always appreciate hotness, but im not always ready to fuck at the drop of a dime. Im not a dog.

I like it!!

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D Cup

Member No.: 6095 Posts: 2,079 Joined: 04/2005

▫ Apr 18 2006, 00:51 Post #47

QUOTE(diane26)

Doesn't seem odd at all to me my husband can be the same way only difference is when I can tell he is not in a mood to have it he will still be willing to try and than it never works right cant stay hard what have you so I try to tell him NO when I can tell he is super tired or not in a good mood or whatever I rather have him when he is 100% .

i didn't know there was such a thing as not being in the mood. :letsfuck:

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Melon Master

Member No.: 14606 Posts: 28,387 Joined: 04/2006

▫ Apr 18 2006, 09:55 Post #48

As a man in my younger days I could get hard hard when the wind blew , now at 40 I have more control it seems , I can also get a lap dance and not get hard but if the dancer is good she will get ya hard before shes done hell thats her job .
I like the pursuit of my wife for sex i dont like to just know Im going to get it I like to have to work for it a bit anyway ..

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B Cup

Member No.: 11118 Posts: 103 Joined: 10/2005

▫ Apr 18 2006, 11:08 Post #49

I'm now old (24

) and wise enough (and have seen enough action) to be past the teenage thing of instant hard-ons at the sight of a female curve. I've found a knack of avoiding it even when I'm with my GF - if I concentrate on the kissing and cuddling and feeling-up then I don't usually get totally hard and gagging for it until we really get going.

On the other hand, I'm always ready and willing, and if it looks like there's some on offer I go from zero to horny in no seconds flat

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B Cup

Member No.: 14538 Posts: 115 Joined: 04/2006

▫ Apr 19 2006, 14:29 Post #50

QUOTE(diane26)

Doesn't seem odd at all to me my husband can be the same way only difference is when I can tell he is not in a mood to have it he will still be willing to try and than it never works right cant stay hard what have you so I try to tell him NO when I can tell he is super tired or not in a good mood or whatever I rather have him when he is 100% .

Diane,
I think you and your hubby are exact replicas of me and my hubby. I feel like I am reading about myself when I was reading all of your posts. We have an awesome relationship and a very healthy sex life. We are totally different than all of our friends. None of them seem to be attracted to each other the way me and the hubby are. The one thing that can get me everytime is when we are out in a public setting where we may be talking to differnet people and he undresses me with his eyes from across the room. I cannot get out of there fast enough to get on him. It usaully will be in the parking lot or will be stripping on the way home and giving a roady because it just lights off something inside of me. Besides that just read Diane's post and that sums me up.

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Double D's

Member No.: 1198 Posts: 4,656 Joined: 03/2005

▫ Apr 19 2006, 16:30 Post #51

QUOTE(boanna)

most of the time i find myself thinking....whats a girl gotta do to get some dick in this town?

CALL ME!!!!!

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D Cup

Member No.: 13587 Posts: 1,642 Joined: 02/2006

▫ Apr 19 2006, 16:32 Post #52

I'm pretty easy to get in the mood. All it will take most of the time is hubby in the right shirt, playing with my breats the right way or even a simple kiss can get me really hot. If he wants some it doesn't take much convincing. :eatme:

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D Cup

Member No.: 13700 Posts: 1,472 Joined: 02/2006

▫ Apr 19 2006, 18:03 Post #53

QUOTE(natalie)

I'm pretty easy to get in the mood. All it will take most of the time is hubby in the right shirt, playing with my breats the right way or even a simple kiss can get me really hot. If he wants some it doesn't take much convincing. :eatme:

DITTO!

*KISS*

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