QUOTE(monkey19 @ Oct 15 2013, 06:54 PM)
I have a female friend in one of our European offices.
She 'bats for the other side' and continuously makes it clear what she would like to do with me!
My husband has seen and heard flirty emails and calls and is turned on by the idea.(so am I)
Here's the dilemma, she is moving to another company at the end of the month and I am over there next week. He is very keen for me to 'sample the goodies', I like the idea but am worried it might feel like cheating, also I have never gone 'all the way' with a girl before.
Any thoughts (other than take pictures)
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As you said, you're worried about how it would make you feel, so you need to be sure about this for yourself. Make sure your husband understands, while he may be all for it, it's still a bit sensitive for you. Talk it through more with him. Explain WHY you feel like even with his approval you might feel like it's cheating.
Then if you still decide to maybe give it a go, make sure SHE knows where you are coming from. Don't be afraid to call it all off after some kissing if you are in the slightest bit uncomfortable.
Is there any way your husband could be present? Im thinking part of your trepidation comes from the fact it would be only the two of you and that may be why you feel like it would be cheating.
Ultimately, this is your call. If you're genuinely curious about it, and are comfortable with your husband's feelings on the matter, then just take it a step at a time.