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[Gnappster]

thanks for goin after the absent guy...lol

always go after the absent guy, or the guy who doesn't speak english

[Gnappster]

double post

This post has been edited by Gnappster: Mar 3 2006, 12:45 PM

[bondiguy]

always go after the absent guy, or the guy who doesn't speak english

ahh Tiborg... how many times have you saved my butt

[thenewguy]

and I am sure I spelled that wrong good thing this isnt the spelling bee board;)
So with a woman when is it considered masturbation??? If she penetrates herself with something but doesnt cum is it?? Or if she doesnt penetrate but does cum is it as well??

Please Advise thanks

The act of masturbation isn't soley about the orgasm in my opinion. Just like the act of sex isn't about the orgasm.

I think playing with your area is masturbation, with or without the final result. Just as sex is sex, with or without cumming. Not that guys ever have that problem... but I heard that it happens sometimes with girls (not from experience though! lol).

[diane26]

The act of masturbation isn't soley about the orgasm in my opinion. Just like the act of sex isn't about the orgasm.

I think playing with your area is masturbation,  with or without the final result. Just as sex is sex, with or without cumming. Not that guys ever have that problem... but I heard that it happens sometimes with girls (not from experience though! lol).

Very insightful THANK YOU.


SO if I held the shower massager there long enough to have to hurry and move it cause it was to intense have I officially masturbated

[thenewguy]

Very insightful THANK YOU.
SO if I held the shower massager there long enough to have to hurry and move it cause it was to intense have I officially masturbated

Not sure if ytou can masturbate by accident, but if it feels good and you keep it there, than I guess so.

No worries though, if it feels good... DO IT!

[diane26]

Not sure if ytou can masturbate by accident, but if it feels good and you keep it there, than I guess so.

No worries though, if it feels good... DO IT!

Leave it to me too not even be able to get masturbation right

[thenewguy]

Leave it to me too not even be able to get masturbation right

Oh I bet you could if you just relaxed. Don't think of it as dirty... just use your imagination and let go.

My woman doesn't do it (or at least says she doesn't) cause she "likes it when you help". I wouldn't mind if she did though... I think she just feels a little dirty doing it alone. But I like dirty.

[bondiguy]

The act of masturbation isn't soley about the orgasm in my opinion. Just like the act of sex isn't about the orgasm.

I think playing with your area is masturbation, 

I agree sex isnt solely about orgasm but masturbation surely is... I mean why else do you do it? especially for a guy... to give urself blue balls?

[natalie]

Oh I bet you could if you just relaxed. Don't think of it as dirty... just use your imagination and let go.

My woman doesn't do it (or at least says she doesn't) cause she "likes it when you help". I wouldn't mind if she did though... I think she just feels a little dirty doing it alone. But I like dirty. 

Whenever I've masturbated my husband makes me tell him all the details of what got me off. Of course that's not surprising seeing as it's usually him doing anothe girl. I usually have to mentally be envisioning a fantasy to get off.

[closeup]

I'll bet even if you unoffically maturbate, it'll still feel good. Practice, and you'll get the hang of it.

[thenewguy]

I agree sex isnt solely about orgasm but masturbation surely is... I mean why else do you do it? especially for a guy... to give urself blue balls?

yes, it's my main reason to do it... of course it's the best part of masturbation. But if you dont finish (maybe interrupted, maybe moved on to sex with the lady) it still means you "masturbated" even though you didnt cum at the end-- of course thats just my opinion.

[bondiguy]

Whenever I've masturbated my husband makes me tell him all the details of what got me off. Of course that's not surprising seeing as it's usually him doing anothe girl. I usually have to mentally be envisioning a fantasy to get off.    

I always love to hear the details of when my girl masturbates.... its like a penthouse letter come to life

[natalie]

I always love to hear the details of when my girl masturbates.... its like a penthouse letter come to life

Penthouse is alright....Forum is better!

[thenewguy]

Whenever I've masturbated my husband makes me tell him all the details of what got me off... it's usually him doing anothe girl.

omg thats hot.

[bondiguy]

Penthouse is alright....Forum is better!

ah forum, thats what I meant

[Gnappster]

If it feels good do it

[numba1fan]

If it feels good do it 

What that saying? "there are only two types of people in this world....liars....and
masturbators!"

[bondiguy]

What that saying? "there are only two types of people in this world....liars....and
masturbators!"    

Damn... I do both!

[numba1fan]

Hey Bondi, don't we all?!?!?!?!

[Lynette]

This is an interesting question. I'm not really sure if im qualified to answer on behalf of any woman out there though. I've always thought that I kinda have the sex drive of a guy. I mean it's really easy for me to get totally preoccupied with sex, and I'm EXTREMELY orgasmic. I'm pretty sure there's only been like two or three times in my entire life where I didn't cum while having intercourse. I've often found it very hard to sympathize with women who say the never do. Masturbating for me is all about cumming, and experiencing all the feelings and fantasies that go with it along the way to the orgasm. But without the orgasm, I'd just as soon go shopping to tell you the truth. And who knows... with the right heels, short shorts, and see-through top, I just might meet the next lucky guy at the food court. LOL!

[closeup]

     This is an interesting question. I'm not really sure if im qualified to answer on behalf of any woman out there though. I've always thought that I kinda have the sex drive of a guy. I mean it's really easy for me to get totally preoccupied with sex, and I'm EXTREMELY orgasmic. I'm pretty sure there's only been like two or three times in my entire life where I didn't cum while having intercourse. I've often found it very hard to sympathize with women who say the never do. Masturbating for me is all about cumming, and experiencing all the feelings and fantasies that go with it along the way to the orgasm. But without the orgasm, I'd just as soon go shopping to tell you the truth. And who knows... with the right heels, short shorts, and see-through top, I just might meet the next lucky guy at the food court. LOL!

You wear THAT top to the food court and you'll have guys wanting to have you for lunch.

[melonmassager]

You wear THAT top to the food court and you'll have guys wanting to have you for lunch.

doesn't matter what Lynette is wearing, I want her for breakfast, lunch & dinner.

[evade20]

doesn't matter what Lynette is wearing, I want her for breakfast, lunch & dinner.

And midnight snatch... er I mean snack.

[LovemInNJ]

And midnight snatch... er I mean snack.    

absolutely agree with both of you

[ddd35]

absolutely agree with both of you  

Yep me to

[Patrizio]

Believe it or not not always.....

Sometimes i get right to the edge then lose it all together.....

And waaaaaaayyyyyy back when i did have some sex occasionaly...there were times when I did not orgasm. Usually because of condom issues.

ditto

[Patrizio]

OK, just an after thought here. Has anyone engaged in "mutual" masterbation? I don't mean touching each other. I'm talking about sitting opposite on another and watching each other masterbate. Kinda like putting on a little show for the other person. Know what I mean???

I have done it lot of times
on cam, even face to face.. with lot of teasing sometimes.
I had a "friend" who liked to see it, she would get her pussy very close to the head of my cock while we both masturbated and let me shoot on her hand/pussy.

I suspect the last part was what drove her nuts, what really aroused me was having her so close and not being able to go.. any further.

[malhe]

Masturbation can be done various ways and for female you dont have to have vaginal penetration but i do believe you have to cum for it to count or what is the point. I prefer to watch someone while I do it but if noone is available I seem to make due. It can def get you and your partner in the mood watching each other.

[evade20]

Masturbation can be done various ways and for female you dont have to have vaginal penetration but i do believe you have to cum for it to count or what is the point. I prefer to watch someone while I do it but if noone is available I seem to make due. It can def get you and your partner in the mood watching each other.

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