I agree I don't want boring sex either! My attitude is until you know everything that turns your partner on, a little direction never hurt anyone!! If I am not licking right........tell me, I'll correct it. If you want to try a new position, tell me and I'll be glad to try. Isn't that a part of sex? Trying to please the other person, and heck it certainly doesn't hurt one to learn new things!!
I learned a long time ago from a girl I was with who liked to tell you what to do what she did and didn't like. Not only did I learn a lot to please her, but other women I've been with since.
So, what would you like me to do?