QUOTE(junker @ Aug 23 2021, 03:40 AM)
If I understand you correctly, you're sore because you're still lactating, but now that you've ended the relationship, the milk has nowhere to go! I'm not sure what women usually do when discontinuing breastfeeding, but I think you could probably self-express (or find a new happy participant, LOL) and gradually taper down.
How are you doing now?
Adult Breastfeeding is such an intimate experience and ending it can be challenging emotionally as well as physically. It sounds like self-expression or finding another breastfeeding partner may help alleviate some of those pains. Some quick tips:
The
Lactation Wiki is a a good place to start looking for a new suckle partner. There's groups for Kik, Telegram, Facebook, Fetlife, and more.
Joining the Houston adult breastfeeding group at
ANRHouston would also be a good idea if you're in the Houston Texas area. The site has articles, an events calendar, and lots more info.
I hope this helps!