Outline · [ Standard ] · Linear+ This Is To All The Idiotic Jealous, Boyfriends/husbands of RMM posters

[bondiguy]

I really drink to much when I travel....

Then again when I'm not home I can!  

Whats your poison of choice brother?

p.s this thread is DEEP

[baby21]

It more than made sense, it is exactly what I was talking about.     

I have no intention of saying, "I'm unhappy with 1 aspect of our relationship at the moment, bye", because when you are married, you need to compromise and be flexible.  I was looking for other peoples point of view on improving the situation, or even what happens when it goes very bad...because the relationship was once phenomenal in all respects.

Baby, that meant a lot, lot, lot...thanks. 

Chickie, I love you girl!

Have the two of you tried going on a vacation? Like a real vacation just to focus on each other's needs... if you haven't and are planning on it, you can take me!!

[Kiana]

Chickie, i wasnt attacking you. That was my personal opinion. My emotion on this topic is more directed at that fact that people get mad that husbands and boyfriends for not wanting their wives/girlfriends to post nude pics of themselves and talk to men online. In my opinion that husband/boyfriend has every right to get mad. If that bothers the wife then there's a problem if she continues to still do it. Marriage is about compromise and if your (proverbial your) husband doesnt like that you chat with men and post nude pics then you shouldnt do it. If you do then where's the trying for your marriage? You werent the only one that was like I do it cause my husband doesnt do enough of whatever. I dont care how long people have been married. They should do things to help their marriage and eachother and by doing things purposefully that the other doesnt like then you are doing something to harm your marriage and hurt the other person. I dont think thats right

[misschickie]

Chickie, I love you girl!

Have the two of you tried going on a vacation? Like a real vacation just to focus on each other's needs... if you haven't and are planning on it, you can take me!!

Baby, I love YOU girl!!!

Well, we are going away in January...we'll see what happens, lol.

But, I'd LOVE to take you! We are still planning on that trip to Vegas someday, right???

[misschickie]

Chickie, i wasnt attacking you.  That was my personal opinion.  My emotion on this topic is more directed at that fact that people get mad that husbands and boyfriends for not wanting their wives/girlfriends to post nude pics of themselves and talk to men online.  In my opinion that husband/boyfriend has every right to get mad.  If that bothers the wife then there's a problem if she continues to still do it.  Marriage is about compromise and if your (proverbial your) husband doesnt like that you chat with men and post nude pics then you shouldnt do it.  If you do then where's the trying for your marriage?  You werent the only one that was like I do it cause my husband doesnt do enough of whatever.  I dont care how long people have been married.  They should do things to help their marriage and eachother and by doing things purposefully that the other doesnt like then you are doing something to harm your marriage and hurt the other person.  I dont think thats right

Ok. Well, I guess you just touched a nerve. Although my hubby does not mind at all about the naked pics he does get mad if I spend too much time here. I have reduced my time on here a lot...friggin addictive place, this is.

I do see what you are saying in theory. It makes perfect sense, always do for each other, always be there for each other, always love each other. I love him, but sometimes I want to push him off of a cliff, I do a lot for him, but sometimes I do things that I know will piss him off, just because I feel like it...right now, you are thinking, "fuck, what a bitch, why doesn't she divorce him" Ambivilence is the opposite of love, not hate. Sometimes I do shit to get a rise out of him. If I didn't care, I'd go...but I do care, that's why I ask people who aren't involved in my actual life for their opinion. I guess I wasn't interested in hearing that I might be wrong...

And, I agree...if your spouse or whatever really hates you being on here, then perhaps you shouldn't be...but that smothering jealousy is a bitch and can end up backfiring. (that is just my opinion)

[ddd35]

Damor, Trickster and ddd35...thanks for your insights they were very helpful.

I think I am done with this thread, though.

Well your very welcome

[Kiana]

Ok.   Well, I guess you just touched a nerve.  Although my hubby does not mind at all about the naked pics he does get mad if I spend too much time here.  I have reduced my time on here a lot...friggin addictive place, this is.

I do see what you are saying in theory.  It makes perfect sense, always do for each other, always be there for each other, always love each other.  I love him, but sometimes I want to push him off of a cliff, I do a lot for him, but sometimes I do things that I know will piss him off, just because I feel like it...right now, you are thinking, "fuck, what a bitch, why doesn't she divorce him"  Ambivilence is the opposite of love, not hate.  Sometimes I do shit to get a rise out of him.  If I didn't care, I'd go...but I do care, that's why I ask people who aren't involved in my actual life for their opinion.  I guess I wasn't interested in hearing that I might be wrong...

And, I agree...if your spouse or whatever really hates you being on here, then perhaps you shouldn't be...but that smothering jealousy is a bitch and can end up backfiring.  (that is just my opinion)

I agree about the smothering jealousy and thats not the kind of jealousy I was talking about. And girl, I am definitely not thinking "fuck, what a bitch" I understand what you are saying. I did those same things to my ex. I intentionally pissed him off a lot. I finally left because where you still love your husband and you still care, I didnt anymore. It was time for me to go. Staying wouldve have been the wrong thing for both of us but while I was still there I always kept up with my side of the relationship even when I didn't want to. Thats something that I believe both partners owe eachother as long as they are together.

I hope you guys have a great time on your trip. I hope it can start things back on the right track.

[Damor]

Whats your poison of choice brother?

p.s this thread is DEEP

Beer on the day I want to drink all day and I’m out riding. I do love a good vodka tonic (Stoli). I figure tonic has to have water in it so I can stay hydrated while I'm getting drunk then the hangovers shouldn't be as bad.

On the day I want to sit around and relax a good bourbon or scotch (single malt) on the rocks!

You are right DEEP! That’s why I need to have a few before I start thinking. It doesn’t hurt as much then!!!

[Damor]

If I knew how to quote everyone and it wouldn't take up 20 pages I would.

Keep in mind I haven't been drinking YET either.

Everyone has different circumstances in their life and we are all at different stages in our lives also. I wish everyone the best of luck in the relationship that they are in and by reading the previous post it might educate you in your current relationship or your future one.

Now let's all get together and fuck like rock stars!

[baby21]

Baby, I love YOU girl!!!

Well, we are going away in January...we'll see what happens, lol.

But, I'd LOVE to take you!  We are still planning on that trip to Vegas someday, right??? 

Yes yes yes!! As soon as I get my fake ID

Where are you guys going??

[DoubleJ]

Yes yes yes!! As soon as I get my fake ID

Where are you guys going??

Fake ID? oh i love the states, kids can go to war but they can't go have some fun.

[Damor]

Fake ID? oh i love the states, kids can go to war but they can't go have some fun.

They can have fun, but just don't get caught!

[Kiana]

They can have fun, but just don't get caught!

I had A LOT of fun before I was legal

[Damor]

I had A LOT of fun before I was legal

I'm with you baby!! The idea that you might get caught made it even more fun, and that applies to alot of situations!!!!

[bondiguy]

Beer on the day I want to drink all day and I’m out riding.  I do love a good vodka tonic (Stoli).  I figure tonic has to have water in it so I can stay hydrated while I'm getting drunk then the hangovers shouldn't be as bad.

On the day I want to sit around and relax a good bourbon or scotch (single malt) on the rocks!

You are right DEEP!  That’s why I need to have a few before I start thinking.  It doesn’t hurt as much then!!!

Cool.... I am always interested in people's alcoholic beverage of choice.

I do like the theory about tonic water

[COMEDYMAN]

Welp .. yet another sexy woman has to leave because their boyfriend is a fucking insecure cocksucking closet fag.

Now I don't know the back story on this departure but if it follows suit with every other RMM lady leaving its due to a boyfriend husband who just can't handle the fact that they have a sexy significant other who just happens to enjoy folks looking at her boobs.

Now mebbe there is history of that lady stepping out on said boyfriend and he has reason to be cautious......

BUT to argue about it all fucking day and fucking night seems a bit excessive.

I dunno.... if the threat of us random fucks from the interwebby who just leave complementary texts and oogling your girlfriends or wifes tits from afar makes you want to argue with your woman then the problem lies with YOU, you fucktard special olympics towel boy, not your woman.

We are no threat. If whatever game we posses via text and an occasional pic is enough to sway your woman from you then your kung fu was never that strong grasshopper and giving your woman grief over it isn't going to help your case.

The old Shakespearean adage of "The lady doth protest too much, methinks." works even when a dude is doing it. If the grief you get for something goes above and beyond normal reason then 9 times outta 10 the person giving you the grief is guilty of the same thing.

I sound like a god damned broken record whenever I write about these husbands/boyfriends..... morons.

[michelleluvsyou]

Welp .. yet another sexy woman has to leave because their boyfriend is a fucking insecure cocksucking closet fag.

Now I don't know the back story on this departure but if it follows suit with every other  RMM lady leaving its due to a boyfriend husband who just can't handle the fact that they have a sexy significant other who just happens to enjoy folks looking at her boobs.

Now mebbe there is history of that lady stepping out on said boyfriend and he has reason to be cautious......

BUT to argue about it all fucking day and fucking night seems a bit excessive. 

I dunno.... if the threat of us random fucks from the interwebby who just leave complementary texts and oogling your girlfriends or wifes tits from afar makes you want to argue with your woman then the problem lies with YOU, you fucktard special olympics towel boy, not your woman. 

We are no threat. If whatever game we posses via text and an occasional pic is enough to sway your woman from you then your kung fu was never that strong grasshopper and giving your woman grief over it isn't going to help your case.

The old Shakespearean adage of "The lady doth protest too much, methinks."  works even when a dude is doing it.   If the grief you get for something goes above and beyond normal reason then 9 times outta 10 the person giving you the grief is guilty of the same thing.

I sound like a god damned broken record whenever I write about these husbands/boyfriends..... morons.

Thank you CM, I just feel like the way that posting on this site makes me feel should be important to me too. I do think I will continue to post on the forums and share at least flash-friday pics and try and come to happy medium. But the putting myself out for the judging of others seems to be the part he has the biggest issue with. I dunno. I'm just so tired of arguing so Im pretty much at the "yes sir" point. Blah I need to be single for while gosh darnit. I dunno, I'm not gone for good...i did delete my pics from the voting part of the site but I'll repost them all on my 411 if you guys would like. Blah I'm just rambling. I need a good nights solo sleep tonight and I'm looking forward to it.

<3 u guys.

'chelle

[evade20]

Thank you CM, I just feel like the way that posting on this site makes me feel should be important to me too. I do think I will continue to post on the forums and share at least flash-friday pics and try and come to happy medium. But the putting myself out for the judging of others seems to be the part he has the biggest issue with. I dunno. I'm just so tired of arguing so Im pretty much at the "yes sir" point. Blah I need to be single for while gosh darnit. I dunno, I'm not gone for good...i did delete my pics from the voting part of the site but I'll repost them all on my 411 if you guys would like. Blah I'm just rambling. I need a good nights solo sleep tonight and I'm looking forward to it.

<3 u guys.

'chelle

It will take Freak awhile to remove the melons rating pics... He's a bit slow. I'll definitely be looking for your posts.

[karengardener]

I do not tell my boyfriend of the time that I come here.
They would be horrified!
But while I have a boyfriend I tend not to visit often (hence intermittent appearances)

People here are nice.

X

[ddd35]

I do not tell my boyfriend of the time that I come here.
They would be horrified!
But while I have a boyfriend I tend not to visit often (hence intermittent appearances)

People here are nice.

X

im glad you find us nice here ..