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Shooting On Back, Want to get a second opinion
dneidermeyer |
Nov 22 2008, 07:32 PM
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I need a second opinion. My gf and I have stopped using a condom. We were fuckin doggy the other night and I pulled out and shot on her back. Probably the first time but never put much thought into it. Then she got a little pissy with with me asking why I couldn't wait until she rolled over. When I tried to get an explanation she just shuts up and doesn't want to talk about it. It was a real turn on doing it but I don't want to go through that again. Curious to know what people think. Does she like watching me cum? or having the feeling on her tits? I'm just shocked because she has never really minded anything else. Last night we just had oral sex where I did all the work so and came in her mouth so haven't experimented much yet. Thoughts? Jason
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COMEDYMAN |
Nov 23 2008, 07:03 AM
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I think you should let one of us shoot on her back for a comparison. Sounds like the whole act of doggie might not be her forte'. Girls like that eye contact during sex. Makes it more intimate. Also lets her know you are having sex with "Her!" and no fantasizing about plowing Jessica Alba. Doggie takes away from that intimacy. The blasting your load on her back doubles that effect. Maybe she did doggie in the past just for you knowing she will eventually be on her back when you finish. Again this is all specualtion from a few paragraphs of text. CT is right this convo needs to be had with her. Because you will get 1000 different answers here Good luck!!
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digitalnights |
Nov 23 2008, 04:07 PM
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Well it sounds like she's jsut having a hissy for no reason. Personally I don't see what the hell the big deal is. Shooting your load is jsut that. It shouldn't matter where (as long as you're protected from the age old baby thing) you shoot your load, and really in my experience usually the girl is jsut glad you got off and she did her job.
Now, if she refuses to talk about it, make her. There's no reason at all that she can't talk about it other than she's being overly childish about the ordeal. Really, if she was your gf and she cared about you, she'd get past being mad or upset about it, and she'd actually talk to you about what happened. If she gives you attitude, dish it right back. You shouldn't accept "I don't want to talk about it" as an excuse. Other wise you aren't in much of a relationship.
Another trick.... in the middle of the deed ask her this... "where do you want it baby?" It works. It puts her on the spot and normally says that she doesn't care and you choose lol.
But the guys are right, You need to talk to her instead of us really. Make her talk about it. get upset. It's seriously not fair that she can be upset about it. What's the big freakin deal anyways... so what you came on her back.... instead of her grabbing a towel to wipe it off, you do it lol....
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goofus67 |
Dec 1 2008, 12:51 PM
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QUOTE(dneidermeyer @ Nov 22 2008, 07:32 PM) I need a second opinion. My gf and I have stopped using a condom. We were fuckin doggy the other night and I pulled out and shot on her back. Probably the first time but never put much thought into it. Then she got a little pissy with with me asking why I couldn't wait until she rolled over. When I tried to get an explanation she just shuts up and doesn't want to talk about it. It was a real turn on doing it but I don't want to go through that again. Curious to know what people think. Does she like watching me cum? or having the feeling on her tits? I'm just shocked because she has never really minded anything else. Last night we just had oral sex where I did all the work so and came in her mouth so haven't experimented much yet. Thoughts? Jason There is a term for guys who pull out and blow at the last minute. In English, the word is: "Father" Pulling out at last second, if used as contraception, is as useful as...a broken condom.
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ddd35 |
Dec 3 2008, 04:45 PM
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QUOTE(dneidermeyer @ Dec 3 2008, 09:55 AM) As a follow-up... I finally got my gf to talk to me about her phobia or whatever you call it. A few years back she found herself in a unplanned threesome with her bf at the time and one of his friends in a dark room. She was blowing the other guy while the bf did her doggy but he came pretty fast and shot on her back and left the room. At that point she just wanted to stop and was feeling kinda uncomfortable about the situation but continued anyway but couldn't get him off after a long while. She told him her jaw was getting tired so he suggested that she sit up and relax. She rested against the headboard and he stuck his dick back in her mouth and started to jerk himself off. The bf walked in and turned on the light right before he came on her so ehs felt really embarassed. The guys laughed it off but she has never been able to get over how she was left alone with the other guy so guys shooying on her back brings back bad memories. I guess I can live without. Fortunately shes down for everything else I can think of well can understand , try putting her on the pill and shooting inside her , she will love that ....
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atlanta6 |
Dec 3 2008, 04:58 PM
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QUOTE(ddd35 @ Dec 3 2008, 04:45 PM) well can understand , try putting her on the pill and shooting inside her , she will love that .... I like this idea the best!
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