and part B of the guy thing is : It ain't just how fast we get horny it's how fuckin' often . Summer is the babe watchin' season . The small tops and short skirts were all over on saturday . ( It was like 80f were I live)

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Not all men are wired the same and are so easy, I was shocked when watching my husband because we could watch a Porno and he wont even get hard and I will be horny and when I persue him than he gets hard. Also at a strip club he hasn't gotten hard. He says that it seems to be for a long time if it isn't a situation where he knows he can be with that person he wont get hard. Like he says he has been at work and thought of me and got hard but if he saw some hot chick he would think she was hot but wouldnt get hard cause he knows he wont be fucking her.

Anyway so I know not all men are the same and I know it isn't some bullshit he is telling me cause I have witnessed it but as far as when it comes to me I could be looking my worst come out and stetch and he will get hard.

I have a friend and her husband is the same way and when we were in vegas and he got a lapdance he didnt get hard either until his wife took over.

I like the chase . It's more arousing not being sure you can get them . IMO

My kind of man.

I like that with my husband at times too when he is tired or we been fighting and I get horny and I have to work a little to get him in the mood.

I think it really spices things up to have things be different.

Exactly ! I always put more effort into getting the chicks that showed less interest . My wife barely made eye contact the first time she was introduced to me . That started it all ! LOL

BTW Diane , I just now saw your profile pics .

very nice . Nice job Mr.Diane26 on landing you !

THank you,

My husband and I totally had a love hate thing going on before we hooked up, shoot we had crushes on eachother for 2 years before we finally admitted it.

I think the challenge is alwayus worth the reward. There is about 2% of the time though that I am just horny and don't want no chase just want to be fucked.

start running di, i'm chasin' ya.

Dude.....you get horny when the wind blows!!!!

Ok. I'll be the odd guy out here. MOST of the time I can get horny quick and jump right into it. Sometimes I lose interest though if Im horny and ready to get it on but the wife wants to soft kiss and rub and tickle... all that stuff kinda takes me out of the mood. If I got a full hard on... than that sucker wants to get at it!

However, on some occasions Im just not in the mood- im might be tired or a bit depressed or something,,, but sometimes my sex drive just drops because of my mood. The wife can see the signals by now and she knows just to wait until tomorrow.

On average we have sex 2-3 times a week. Sometimes more... but 2-3 is average.

Doesn't seem odd at all to me my husband can be the same way only difference is when I can tell he is not in a mood to have it he will still be willing to try and than it never works right cant stay hard what have you so I try to tell him NO when I can tell he is super tired or not in a good mood or whatever I rather have him when he is 100% .

being boanna...she was already done before you flipped the switch!

to know how fast im horny ,lets go to talk on msn lol

I guess I was just sayong that most people have the idea that all men are always horny. Im not... but I always appreciate hotness, but im not always ready to fuck at the drop of a dime. Im not a dog.

yea, your right. sometimes i just wanna say..get lost! but not very often. most of the time i find myself thinking....whats a girl gotta do to get some dick in this town?

I like it!!

i didn't know there was such a thing as not being in the mood.

As a man in my younger days I could get hard hard when the wind blew , now at 40 I have more control it seems , I can also get a lap dance and not get hard but if the dancer is good she will get ya hard before shes done hell thats her job .
I like the pursuit of my wife for sex i dont like to just know Im going to get it I like to have to work for it a bit anyway ..

I'm now old (24 ) and wise enough (and have seen enough action) to be past the teenage thing of instant hard-ons at the sight of a female curve. I've found a knack of avoiding it even when I'm with my GF - if I concentrate on the kissing and cuddling and feeling-up then I don't usually get totally hard and gagging for it until we really get going.

On the other hand, I'm always ready and willing, and if it looks like there's some on offer I go from zero to horny in no seconds flat

Diane,
I think you and your hubby are exact replicas of me and my hubby. I feel like I am reading about myself when I was reading all of your posts. We have an awesome relationship and a very healthy sex life. We are totally different than all of our friends. None of them seem to be attracted to each other the way me and the hubby are. The one thing that can get me everytime is when we are out in a public setting where we may be talking to differnet people and he undresses me with his eyes from across the room. I cannot get out of there fast enough to get on him. It usaully will be in the parking lot or will be stripping on the way home and giving a roady because it just lights off something inside of me. Besides that just read Diane's post and that sums me up.

CALL ME!!!!!

I'm pretty easy to get in the mood. All it will take most of the time is hubby in the right shirt, playing with my breats the right way or even a simple kiss can get me really hot. If he wants some it doesn't take much convincing.

DITTO!

*KISS*